Yesterday I was struggle to decide how to get my need, without making my husband annoyed. I'm not the kind of submissive wife, who is easily ask for a spanking when she feels she need it. But I tried yesterday...
In the evening, my husband came home about 9:00 PM, helped me get our baby to sleep, took a shower, and asked me when I want to go to bed. I said I want to go to bed right away, and he surprised me so much when said "OK, I'll go with you" (normally he just let me go to bed alone and go play several games if it's not late). When we were talking in bed, I said to him "Today, I viewed some video about spankings on the internet, and I was uncomfortable with need from the afternoon, maybe I just want something....", then he asked me "are you wanting to be spanked?" ... and it took all my braveness to say "yes" !
So, he decide to give me what I owed him for this week right then (he had planned to do that Saturday, not Friday), it was 280 smacks with a hairbrush. We went to our toilet (closed door, to decrease the noise), although it's not very good place to do that, but we had no choice. He dropped my pants and panties, led me over his knee, and start spanking.
Last week, he felt sorry for me and spanked with very little force, so that didn't have much impression to me (until I bratted to him that he spanked too weak... and then I've got more than I ask for). So, yesterday, he use medium force right from the beginning, and it's really HURT with a hairbrush !!! He spanked rapidly 50 smacks each time, then break for a minute. He asked me to count and it's so hard to count exactly and not too loud while your bottom is being spanked HARD ! When he finished, my bottom was burned and throbbing, I was so relieved that the spanking ended although I was who asked for it lol
Then, we had really good time together until we were all tired and both went to sleep. I felt very happy, I told him, and he said he was too. So, I found out sometimes thinking much is not good, just say it, ofcourse in the right way and at the right time, I'll get what I need. But lucky me, my "debt" to him this week is rather small, or maybe I'll still need to think carefully before suggesting :-)
Nita,
ReplyDeleteI think you did a great job asking! And it sounds like he is really will on this whole idea. But I agree that hairbrushes HURT! I'm a spanko that like everything about spanking except the spanking itself! The anticipation, the closeness I feel with my husband afterward and the stinging/achy soreness when it's over. It's only the part where he is actively swatting my bottom that I keep thinking 'why do I like this?" LOL!
You said you sent me an email. If I didn't reply I can promise you I didn't get it!! If by chance it went into my spam I might have missed it. Please email again. Believe me I'm no expert on any of this but I'd love to email and discuss a few thing I have learned about blogging and such. And, btw, I still get excited at each and every comment I get!
Hugs,
PK
Just discovered your blog by your comment on PK's blog. Congrats on asking for the spanking. I know sometimes it's hard to speak up but I am sure you are glad you did.
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Hi, my first visit to your blog. As much as we would like them to be, our partners are not mind readers....asking for what you need/want is difficult for me too. abby
ReplyDeleteHi FD,
ReplyDeleteThank you for passing by. I think I will need more advice from you in the future
Hi abby,
Thank you for visiting my blog. Yes, it's true that our partnet can't read our mind, but asking for a spanking is really hard, I felt so embarrassed when I asked for it :-) maybe I'll get used to it through time.
Nita, I am glad you were able to ask and that the spanking made you feel better. I hate counting too!
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